ONE TOY AT A TIME

There have been mornings, desperate to finish a cup of coffee, that I've sat Henry's bottom on a pile of squeaky teethers and singing critters. But as a general rule, I usually try to give him a single object to play with, and often a single book or ball will keep him busier for longer than a pile of toys competing for his attention.

This isn't a post about how to parent, but parenting does lead to a good look in the mirror. Less screen time because too much isn't good for him? I'm currently recovering from an addiction to a certain Netflix show. One toy at a time? Last night I caught myself watching a movie, reading through blogs, texting and eating dinner, all while trying to have a conversation with Joseph.

Divided attention isn't really attention.

Advances in technology are incredible and useful, but keep your use of them simple, intentional, and less frequent. The act of focus will improve the quality of your work and relationships.